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One of the things that can deeply hurt women is to be cheated on, but do you know that there are other things that hurt women even more? These things hurt them more because it makes them feel like they are worth nothing, it makes them lose trust in people and it affects their emotional security. In this post, I will talk about four things that hurt women more than even being cheated on. 1. When they are not appreciated Nobody likes it when they put in all their best and at the end of the day, they are not appreciated. When a woman decides to put in all her best to make her man happy, and she is not appreciated for her efforts, she will feel wounded in her spirit. When people go extra mile to do something for you and you appreciate them, it shows that you recognize their effort and this will also make them feel loved. 2. Unfulfilled promises and betrayal When a woman has been assured that something will be done or that a particular thing will happen, she will put her mind ...

The signs that a partner is emotionally manipulative can be difficult to recognize at times, but with patience and attention, you will be able to recognize the signs. When you are in a relationship with a manipulative partner, you will often get confused. This is because they will always try to control and deceive you. So, if you're able to see these signs early, you will be able to prevent him/her from damaging you emotionally. Here are 7 ways to know a manipulative partner: 1. They are fond of using threats Manipulative people prefer to threaten their partner instead of settling conflicts maturely. When there is an argument, they will say things like, "if you don't stay home today, I will find someone else," or "if you don't buy that, consider the relationship over." Hearing your partner say these kind of things can cause panic and fear. 2. They stop you from seeing the people close to you Because of their manipulative nature, they wi...

Choosing a woman to spend the rest of his life with is one of the most important decisions a man can make. This decision is so important that if a man chooses the wrong life partner, he might regret it for the rest of his life. It's true that nobody is perfect, but there are some things women do that shows they are not the right woman to go into a long term relationship with. In this post, I will talk about eight things a bad wife material will do. When you notice these 8 signs in her, she is a bad wife material. 1. She is disrespectful When the woman you're planning to spend the rest of your life with is always disrespecting you and the people around you, it means she lacks the qualities of a good wife. For a marriage to thrive, partners need to respect each other. 2. She avoid important conversations A bad wife material will always avoid important conversations with you. She will never accept criticism even if she is the one at fault and when you have disagr...

Being in a relationships can make you happy, but when certain red flags are ignored, it can result in a situation where you gain nothing out of it. There are some things people do in relationships that shows that no matter how we try to invest in the relationship, it can never be healthy. These behaviours are red flags that warn us to reconsider staying in the relationship. So, in this post, I will talk about seven things to watch out for in your relationship, to be able to decide if you should invest your time or walk away. 1. When there is less communication For a relationship to be strong, it requires good communication. If you are in a relationship where your partner doesn't like communicating with you, doesn't care about what you think, and rarely tells you how they feel, that type of relationship will never grow. Lack of honest and open communication in any relationship will often result in frequent misunderstandings. 2. When you are the only one putting in...

Everyone goes into a marriage with the believe that it's going to succeed. In fact, we often imagine growing old with the person we love, weathering life’s storms together. But the hard truth is, not every marriage lasts a lifetime. Despite the best intentions, love can fade, connection can weaken, and some couples grow apart. If you are having doubt about your relationship, it might be more than just a rough patch. Here are eight clear signs your marriage might be over—and what they could mean for your future. 1. Constant Arguing Signals Deeper Marital Issues Disagreements are normal in any marriage, but constant arguing is a red flag. When every conversation turns into a fight or you feel like you're always walking on eggshells, it’s time to take a serious look at your relationship. Healthy couples know how to compromise and communicate . But when arguments replace affection, it may be a sign that you're no longer emotionally connected—and that the foun...

We all wish to have a marriage that is filled with happiness and joy. When you're married, knowing your husband is genuinely grateful he chose you brings peace, joy, and emotional security. While every relationship is unique, there are unmistakable signs that reveal your husband’s appreciation for the life you share. Whether you’ve been married for months or decades, recognizing these signs can help you feel seen, valued, and loved. Here’s a list of the top 9 signs your husband is grateful he married you—filled with authentic gestures and everyday actions that speak louder than words. 1. He Shows Gratitude in Big and Small Ways When your husband is grateful he married you, you won’t have to wonder. He shows it—not just by saying “thank you,” but through consistent actions. He expresses appreciation for the little things, like you making his favorite meal or picking up something he mentioned in passing. He might also take on tasks without being asked, surprise you with though...

When hatred creeps into a marriage, it doesn’t always come in screaming. Sometimes, it shows up in the little things—cold stares, silence, or constant arguments. If you're sensing that your wife may hate you, it’s crucial to explore what’s really happening beneath the surface of your relationship. When hate replaces love in a marriage, it often means that there are deep-rooted issues that need attention. Below, we break down 9 unfortunate but clear signs your wife may hate you, using real emotional and behavioral cues you should not ignore. 1. She’s Constantly Mean or Hostile When love fades, hostility often steps in. If your wife regularly speaks to you with sarcasm, disdain, or harshness, this isn't just moodiness—it could be a sign of unresolved resentment. Couples who have a healthy relationship are always kind to eachother.  But if your conversations are filled with biting remarks, insults, or dismissiveness, she may be harboring deeper feelings of hatred. 2. Her Su...

Love is something that should not be wasted or treated carelessly. Treat it like a rare jewel that is not commonly found. True love nowadays is like a rare gem. So when you hurt a woman that is truly in love with you, it's like you're taking the rare jewel that is not commonly found, putting it on the ground and stepping on it. A jewel is a precious stone, so destroying it means destroying something so beautiful. When a woman loves you, it means she has already put you somewhere special in her heart. So it is important that you don't treat this type of woman anyhow. It's not always easy for a woman to fall in love with a man. They always try to protect themselves from being hurt. So if you have a woman that truly loves you, you are one of the lucky men. You Might Also Like To Read : 5 Things A Woman Will Do When She Wants To Be More Than A Friend So before you hurt a woman that loves you, think about these 6 things. 1. You can't find true love easily Now...

When a girl just want you as a friend, she will not bother putting effort to look nice around you. But if you're the type of guy she likes, and wants you to be her lover, then she will do everything she can to look attractive to you. She believes that looking attractive to you will make you notice her and probably see her as someone you can have romantic relationship with. So how will a guy notice when a woman is doing everything to look attractive to him? An example is, when you notice that every time she is coming to see you, she puts in a lot of efforts to look attractive. I have put together 5 things a woman will do when she wants you to be more than just friends. You might also like to read : 8 Things A Woman Will Do When She Wants You Badly In Her Life When A Woman Wants To Be More Than Just Friends, She Will Do These 5 Things 1. She avoids making eye contact with you In this case, when you look her in the eye, she will not have the courage to look you back in the...

When you see a woman who has all the physical qualities you want in a woman, the best thing to do is to become friends with her, which will give you the opportunity to know more about her. During the friendship period, you will be able to know if the feelings is mutual and if you both want the same thing. But it's not always easy to know if a woman you like feels the same way about you. Women can sometimes be dramatic and when they are with the guy they love, they become highly sensitive. They do this so that the guy will not see them as someone desperate. They believe that when they show a guy that they are interested in him, he might begin to take them for granted. Another reason why they become highly sensitive around a guy they love is that they will show a guy they are interested in him through their body language and wait for him to come ask them out. They believe that showing subtle signs that they're really interested in you Is enough to catch your attention. ...

When they say a woman is smart, it means she knows better, so when she makes decisions that has to do with her life, she is expected to make smart decisions. But there have been many instances where the opposite is the case. Many women who are believed to be smart make mistakes that are avoidable when dating. I am not saying that smart women should not make mistakes. When we are in love, it is very easy for us to make mistakes. These mistakes don't occur because we are not smart. After all, nobody is a "know it all." Related Posts : 7 Things Men Love To Hear From Their Women But because you're in love doesn't mean that you should continue making mistakes, the earlier you realize your mistakes and start making the right decisions the better. So, what are the 7 mistakes smart women make while dating? 1. Thinking you're too perfect to make mistakes It's true you are a smart woman, but do you know that you can't be perfect at everything? When...

It is believed that men are not as emotional as women, although some people suggest it's not true. Men hardly express their emotions openly unlike women, but studies shows that they experience the same range of emotions as women. So if you can tell your man these things often, he will greatly appreciate it and his love for you will continue to grow stronger. Related post 5 Things You Can Do To Strengthen The Bond In Your Relationship Without Having Sex 7 Things You Should Tell Your Man Often. 1. Tell him he is handsome Telling your man he is handsome is a statement that shows you find him attractive. It means you like his physical appearance. Just like women love it when men call them pretty, calling a man "handsome" means you appreciate his appearance and strength. Men feel amazing when they're called "handsome." It makes them gain confidence and it means that all the effort they put in to look good is not a waste. 2. Tell him you are proud of ...

Nowadays, many people believe that the only way to sustain a romantic relationship is through sexual intimacy. They believe that the only thing that can sustain a meaningful connection is sex. Well, it's true that sex is very important in relationships but it's not the only way couples can strengthen the bond between them. Probably, you and your partner have decided to not have sex for a long time, this might be due to reasons best known to the two of you. But there are a lot of ways you can still strengthen the bond in your relationship. Here are 5 ways to strengthen bond in relationships without sex . 1. Communicate regularly in an open and honest way For a relationship to be successful, there must be strong communication . At the beginning of the relationship, let your partner know your boundaries, expectations and values. When you communicate these to your partner in an open and honest way, there will be respect, trust and emotional intimacy will become stronger. ...

Men can be difficult to understand sometimes, and this is one of the reasons why it can be difficult to predict their true intentions towards women. Probably you have met a guy you like but you are not sure if he is crushing on you, we will talk about 8 signs a man will show when he is crushing on a lady. Sometimes, a guys attitude towards you can confuse you then you start wondering if he has feelings for you or not. This post will talk about different signs to watch out for, from what he says, to his body language. Knowing the different signs a guy will show when he is crushing on you will help you know if his feelings for you are real or not. Related : Never Do These 6 Things In The Early Stages Of Dating When A Guy Shows These 8 Signs, He Is Crushing On You. 1. He remembers the little things One of the main signs to know when a guy is crushing on you is that he will remember the little things about you. Probably during your previous conversations, you have told him the ...