This has really influenced the rate at which couples end their marriage and has put a lot of pressure on women who are above the age of 30.
Because of the societal pressure, a lot of women are forced to get married to people they are not supposed to be married to.
This belief is very harmful because most people only focus on getting married, they don't care if you have a healthy marriage or not.
It also make people feel like it's a bad thing to be single, which can make those that are yet to marry begin to doubt themselves.
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6 Things You Will Notice When Your Marriage Is Healthy
I once asked some friends why they decided to get married and their response was that, "it was the next step in their life."
When some people get married, the first thing they want to focus on is to settle down with their husband or wife.
Many times, they forget that marriage requires effort.
A lot of couples who are not supposed to get married, end up getting married.
Then after many fights and arguments, they realize they are not compatible and shouldn't have married each other. And at the end, they decide to go their separate ways.
In this post, we are going to talk about 6 things that will happen when you marry the wrong person.
But when these arguments and fights become frequent and the partners hardly reach a compromise, you might have married the person you are not supposed to marry.
It's normal to have arguments and fights in a marriage.
You both are from different background and brought up differently.
So there are times when you will disagree and fight over certain issues.
But when the fights, arguments and disagreements become too often, it means there is something wrong in the relationship.
You usually disagree with your partner which often results in fighting.
This shows that you shouldn't have gotten married to each other.
When a partner is unhappy in the marriage, he or she may start looking for happiness outside the marriage.
Cheating in marriage shows that there is a deep problem that needs to be attended to.
A partner might cheat when he or she feels like they are no longer appreciated in the relationship or when he or she no longer has physical and emotional intimacy with the other partner.
Some partner may decide to cheat when they meet someone who has the features they desire, thereby making them believe that they found the "Mr or Mrs Right."
People also cheat so they could have fun and temporarily forget about the fact that they are in the wrong marriage.
It's okay to be sad sometimes, it's normal. Life itself doesn't go straight, sometimes you have bad days and sometimes good days.
But if you experience sadness everyday in your marriage, that is not normal at all.
You know that since you married your partner, you have never felt happy. Even your partner doesn't make you happy.
If you have never been happy in your marriage, you probably married the wrong partner.
I once asked some friends why they decided to get married and their response was that, "it was the next step in their life."
When some people get married, the first thing they want to focus on is to settle down with their husband or wife.
Many times, they forget that marriage requires effort.
A lot of couples who are not supposed to get married, end up getting married.
Then after many fights and arguments, they realize they are not compatible and shouldn't have married each other. And at the end, they decide to go their separate ways.
In this post, we are going to talk about 6 things that will happen when you marry the wrong person.
1. There will always be arguments and fights
When two people with different background come together, there will always be arguments and fights.But when these arguments and fights become frequent and the partners hardly reach a compromise, you might have married the person you are not supposed to marry.
It's normal to have arguments and fights in a marriage.
You both are from different background and brought up differently.
So there are times when you will disagree and fight over certain issues.
But when the fights, arguments and disagreements become too often, it means there is something wrong in the relationship.
You usually disagree with your partner which often results in fighting.
This shows that you shouldn't have gotten married to each other.
2. They will not be faithful to you
When you are married to an unfaithful partner, it's a big sign that you married the wrong person.When a partner is unhappy in the marriage, he or she may start looking for happiness outside the marriage.
Cheating in marriage shows that there is a deep problem that needs to be attended to.
A partner might cheat when he or she feels like they are no longer appreciated in the relationship or when he or she no longer has physical and emotional intimacy with the other partner.
Some partner may decide to cheat when they meet someone who has the features they desire, thereby making them believe that they found the "Mr or Mrs Right."
People also cheat so they could have fun and temporarily forget about the fact that they are in the wrong marriage.
3. You will become unhappy in the marriage
Marriage is supposed to be a "happily ever after" union. If you marry the right partner, you will experience it.It's okay to be sad sometimes, it's normal. Life itself doesn't go straight, sometimes you have bad days and sometimes good days.
But if you experience sadness everyday in your marriage, that is not normal at all.
You know that since you married your partner, you have never felt happy. Even your partner doesn't make you happy.
If you have never been happy in your marriage, you probably married the wrong partner.
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4. Your priorities will be different
Priorities are important aspects that need to be looked into if you want to have a stable relationship.Some of the common priorities in marriage are family, plans for career and long-term goals.
It is important that couples have matching priorities, they also have to be able to work as a team in order to make their priorities a reality.
When couples priorities are different and they are not ready to work together or reach a compromise, then the end result will be bad.
For example, your main priority might be to build your family while your partner's priority might be his or her career.
Although they are two good priorities, they can't go together.
If you experience this in your marriage, you might have married the wrong person.
5. You will rarely communicate with each other
If you rarely talk with your partner, probably you married the person you are not supposed to marry.Before you start a relationship, you have to talk with each other. Whether it's a new friend, neighbors, colleagues, boyfriend or girlfriend, you have to start with talking.
So this shows that communication is very important in any relationship.
So seeing a married couple not talking to each other is something surprising.
It's understandable when they are having some arguments and disagreements but to not talk when they have no issues shows lack of communication between them.
For you to have a healthy marriage, you have to be each other's best friend and companion.
When the passionate affection you have for each other begin to decline, the good communication, laughter and friendship you share with your partner will be the things that will keep you going.
6. You will not be honest with each other
Dishonesty in marriage can seriously damage the trust and emotional intimacy you have for each other, which can further lead to breakdown of marriage.Without honesty, there is no way a marriage will succeed. This is because honesty is very important in any relationship.
A marriage where partners lie to each other and keep secrets from each other will never make any headway.
When you realize that the person you married keep secrets from you or lie to you everytime to the extent that you no longer trust what they say, you might have married the wrong person.
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